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D. Sweet's avatar

Yep the dark side of self improvement. It can make you so busy working towards this future self that your present is not enjoyed.

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the dark side of self improvement!

Christopher Stanley's avatar

Striving for personal growth is the noble mask we wear to justify our ambition to ourselves and others. But the "self-improvement" loop is often just a sophisticated stall tactic to avoid the raw vulnerability of owning your desires without an excuse. What part of your "growth journey" is actually just a hiding spot from the person you already are?

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absolutely this!

Jeanine Mojum's avatar

All the self help has us overthinking and overintellectualizing!

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yes! just overdoing everything but getting active!

Jazmyn's avatar

Yes get the girls together! No self help books, none of that.

SLUTTY FOUNDER's avatar

just keep moving! enough is enough

alinia's avatar

Not the Epstein line girl 😭😭😭 loved the article though!! It was super needed in my current time of life

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glad it's useful 😭